Account

Hiding, pausing or deleting your account

Your marriage is settled, you want a break for a while, or you want to leave for good — there are three options to suit your needs. You'll find all of them in “My profile” → “Privacy settings”.

About 3 min read Last updated: 9 October 2026
Hide profile

You won't appear in search, but messages and your shortlist stay on. Show your profile again at any time.

Pause your account

Profile, interests and messages are paused. Everything comes back as soon as you log in again.

Delete permanently

After 30 days, all information, photos, certificates and points are permanently deleted.

1.Which one is right for you

HiddenPausedPermanent deletion
Visible in search?NoNoNo
Messages and interestsOnOffDeleted
PointsKeptKeptDeleted
Can it be undone?At any timeBy logging inWithin 30 days
When it's usefulA short breakA long breakNo longer needed

2.Hiding your profile

1
Open “My profile”

From the sidebar menu.

2
Go to the “Privacy settings” section

Turn on the “Hide profile” switch.

3
To show it again

Turn the same switch off.

3.Pausing your account

While paused, no one sees your profile and no new interests or messages arrive. When you log in again, your account is back to normal. Any active boost stops, and points for its remaining time are not refunded.

4.Deleting permanently

1
Request deletion

Confirm with your password. A confirmation message will be sent to your email.

2
30-day wait

During this time your profile stays completely hidden. If you change your mind, log in and cancel the request.

3
Permanent deletion

After 30 days, your profile, photos, birth registration and education certificates, messages and points are permanently deleted.

For legal obligations or fraud prevention, a limited amount of information (such as donation transaction records and reports of rule-breaking) may be kept for a set period. Details are in the privacy policy.

5.Profiles managed by a guardian

Only the owner of the account the profile was created from can delete it. If the bride or groom wants to delete the profile but has no access, we will help after verifying their identity — send a request from the contact page.

6.Once the marriage is settled

Congratulations! Before deleting your profile, you may like to submit your success story — no story is published without both of your consent.

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