Shortlist: the profiles you like, in one place
Marriage decisions shouldn't be rushed. Save the profiles you like, take your time to talk with your family, then decide who to send interest to.
What it is
Tap the bookmark on a search result, a match or someone's profile page and the profile is added to your shortlist. Tap again to remove it. The page doesn't reload, so you can keep saving while you search.
The shortlist page shows all your saved profiles together, each with when you saved it. Read them one by one, compare, and remove the ones you no longer need.
In many families decisions are made together. Turn on the family link and your parents or guardian can see your shortlist without an account, and you can switch the link off at any time.
Who it's for
- People who look at many profiles and decide later
- Members who decide together with their parents
- Guardians choosing profiles for a son or daughter
- Anyone who wants to compare before sending interest
How it works
Create a free profile
The shortlist is for members.
Tap the bookmark
From search, matches or a profile page.
Open your shortlist
All your saved profiles in one place.
Send interest when ready
Talk it over with your family, then go ahead.
Why it's safe
Your shortlist is yours. The person you save is not told, and no other member can see your list. Only if you turn on the family link can whoever has that link see it.
If a profile is hidden, suspended or blocked, it no longer shows in your shortlist either.
General question
Will they know I shortlisted them?
No. Shortlisting doesn't notify anyone. They only find out if you send interest.
Is the shortlist free?
Yes, saving to your shortlist costs no points.
How do I remove someone?
Tap the bookmark again, or press "Remove" on the shortlist page.
Why did a profile disappear from my shortlist?
Profiles that are hidden, suspended or blocked no longer show in the list.
How can my parents see it?
Turn on the family link and send it to them; they can see your shortlist without an account.