Kotha: members talking about marriage
The search for a partner brings up questions you can't ask just anyone. On Kotha, members share questions, experiences and advice, respectfully.
What it is
Kotha is the timeline for ShadiMaker members. Ask about marriage, family and finding a partner, write about your own experience, and like and comment on other posts. A post can carry up to four photos.
For something personal, post anonymously. Everyone then sees "Anonymous member" instead of your name or photo. Only our team can see who wrote it, so we can act if the rules are broken.
Stuck for words? Press ✨ and AI tidies up what you wrote; you check it before posting. The "Family" tab shows guardians' posts, and "Popular" shows the posts with the most response.
The ShadiMaker team also posts marriage tips, discussion questions and site tips here. Good posts earn you points once they are published, which you can use to boost your profile.
Who it's for
- People who want to hear others' experiences before marriage
- Guardians who want advice from other families
- Anyone with a question they'd rather ask without their name
- Members who want to help others from their own experience
How it works
Open the timeline
Anyone can read posts without logging in.
Create a free profile
Posting, liking and commenting are for members.
Write or ask
Add photos or post anonymously if you like.
Published after a check
Once checked, everyone sees it and you are told.
Why it's safe
Every post and comment is checked before it goes up. Abuse, phone numbers or contact details, scams and posts that put people down are not published.
Report any post or comment that looks wrong. When several different members report it, it is hidden until our team looks. You don't see posts from people you have blocked.
General question
Do I need an account to read?
No, anyone can read. Posting, liking, commenting and sharing need a free profile.
If I post anonymously, will anyone know it's me?
Other members won't. Only our team can see, to act if the rules are broken.
Why can't I see my post yet?
Every post is checked before it is published. You are told when it goes up.
Can I delete my own post?
Yes, any time. Points earned for it are taken back when you delete it.
Do I earn points for posting?
Yes, for good published posts. Very short or repeated posts earn nothing, and there is a daily limit.